Thursday Oct 27, 2022

Why Trying to “Score” with Women is a Dumb Goal (and How to Avoid This) | RR16

In this episode, I talk about how you don’t need all women to like you to be happy; you just need one. 

This is important to remember because in the age of social media, it’s easy to compare your real life to some other dude’s fake life. When you do this, it affects your confidence level and your whole approach with new women. When you stop comparing yourself, real confidence can show up quickly.

Episode Notes:


RR16. Remind yourself that there’s no scorecard or trophy for dating or hooking up. 


  • Comparing yourself to other guys is counter-productive and will drive you crazy. So, don’t do it.
  • Obsessing about “scoring” with women is usually a practice of guys who don’t actually “score” with women.
  • Only score yourself (loosely) on fundamentals (e.g., avoiding DNA behaviors, staying upbeat after rejections, talking to someone new, etc..).
  • The less you try to make someone new like you or date you, the easier those things may become.
  • There is no official trophy for hooking up or penalty for striking out with a woman. There’s only happy and unhappy. 


Quote to Remember:


“Meeting and dating someone great, someone you really like, someone who likes you back…it’s all just a process. It’s a bunch of little things along the way. It’s about fundamentals.”

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