How to Avoid That “Trying too Hard” Vibe That Scares Women Away | RR22

In this episode, I talk about how some mistakes men make with women stem from unrealistic expectations and impatience. I also talk about the importance of impulse control around women to whom you’re very attracted.

Why should you care about any of this? Because, many times the “right” move with a new woman is the exact opposite of what you FEEL like doing. Once you understand this simple idea, you can improve your chances with new women - even if those women are very attractive.

Episode Notes:

RR22. Accept the fact that success with women often involves some waiting and some frustration. 

• A lot of success with women is about discipline and patience. 
• Impatience and a lack of discipline around women is like steroids for “DNA” (desperate, needy, afraid) behaviors.
• There’s not some ultra-elite group of dating geniuses who never have to wait or be frustrated with a woman.
• What works with women is often the opposite of what you’re driven by impulse to say or do. 
• The Mr. Patience and Mr. Discipline version of you is WAY better with women. The Impulse Version of You is terrible with women. 

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Quote to Remember:

“Never forget that once a new woman starts liking you and you’re being patient with her, this only helps to build sexual tension even more.”

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